This was the voice of a 6-year-old that I have been watching since she was a tiny 15-month-old. We attended Music Together classes for over two years prior to me teaching and I have been teaching now for more than three years. At this point, she has heard every Music Together song in some capacity. However, I was SHOCKED to hear her singing “Canoe Song,” a song from the Bongos Collection, because we usually sing whatever is new and current in our brains. Right now, I’m much more prone to break out into “Hey Lolly” or “Vengan a Ver”—something from the current collection!
She then went on to tell me that she had learned a different version of “Canoe Song” at school, but said that she wanted to sing it with me because she had sung it with me first. While she may not have remembered the song explicitly on its own, something was activated in her brain when she learned a different version of it in school. The memory of singing it with me first was still there from five years ago!
I share this story because even though I know how important my influence is on this child’s life (as her nanny), I sometimes forget this from time to time. It is so important to remember how powerful our voices are to our children. They may not always show it, but they are always paying attention. They are so tuned into the voices of those they are emotionally attached to. Whether we are singing or talking, they are hearing it and taking it into their very being.
The holidays are coming and along with that comes a lot of food, family, and presents. However, once the food is eaten and the presents are unwrapped, what will remain?
Here are five fun ways to play with music during the holidays to create fond holiday memories:
- Put on some music and dance and sing as you decorate or wrap presents.
- Sing songs from the Flute CD or your favorite holiday tunes when you are driving in the car to run errands or visit relatives.
- Sing “The Hello Song” and “Goodbye Song” to all of the relatives you visit with this season.
- Look through previous Music Together songbooks and CDs and revisit your favorites. See if you can put a new holiday twist on some of them: “My tree is green and bright, flashing with ornaments…”
- Conduct a jam session with your family to your favorite holiday songs! No need for fancy instruments—pots, pans, tupperware, and wooden spoons will work just fine.
Please leave a comment and let us know how you are bringing music making into your holiday season. Whatever ways you choose to play, you will be creating musical memories that will last a lifetime for both you and your child.
Music Together Teacher